Wesley Tanaka (![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} wtanaka) wrote,@ 2008-06-05 04:20:00 |
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Cognitive Consonance
Do I first decide that a certain personality trait is important, and then only later try to cultivate it in myself and start gravitating toward people with that trait?
Or am I attracted to someone first (platonic and not), decide via cognitive dissonance that one of their traits is important, and then only finally start to cultivate that trait in myself and look for it in others?
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